Jesus, Help Me Parent

For the Christian parent who loves their kids deeply and still feels like they're getting it wrong.

Calm, practical, heart-based guidance for navigating big emotions, hard behaviors, and everyday family struggles — with grace instead of guilt.

Maybe you've tried every strategy you could find online and nothing seems to stick. Or maybe you're not even sure where to start — you just know something feels hard, and you're tired of feeling like you're getting it wrong.

Many of the families I work with are navigating things like ADHD, anxiety, autism, adoption, learning struggles, homeschool life, sibling conflict, or constant emotional overwhelm.

No matter what your family is facing, you're in the right place.

Hi, I'm B.J. Meurer. I'm a Christian parenting coach, educator, speaker, and father of 8 who helps overwhelmed families navigate big emotions and difficult moments with calm, practical, heart-based guidance rooted in Jesus.

After nearly three decades working with children and families — both professionally and in my own home — I've experienced firsthand how much changes when families feel seen, connected, and equipped.

A little more about me

A free resource to help you get started

Your Family’s Roadmap for Navigating Big Emotions

Most parenting strategies work great — until they don't. This free guide gives your family something better than scripts for specific situations — a simple, repeatable framework you can use in any hard moment.

Through three practical steps — Notice, Pause, Make a Plan — you'll learn how to recognize what's happening emotionally, slow things down, and move forward together with your kids.

Includes a printable dashboard poster your whole family can reference.

Free. Printable. Built for real family life.

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Ways We Can Go Deeper Together

Connected Cooperation

This is the core framework I use with many of the families I work with. Through this course and companion journal, I walk you through a practical, heart-based approach to building real cooperation with your kids — focusing on connection and heart change, not just behavior. It’s flexible enough to work with kids of all ages, stages, and needs.

Available as a self-paced course or guided journal.

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1:1 Coaching

An 8-week experience where I walk alongside you as we look honestly at what’s happening in your family and build a practical, personalized way forward. Parents often leave with clearer direction, more effective tools for real-life situations, and a renewed sense of hope in their home. You bring everything — the hard moments, the confusion, the discouragement. There’s no shame here, only support and practical next steps.

Find Me Where You Are

My longer teaching and deeper dives live on YouTube. I also share practical tools, real family moments, and faith woven into everyday parenting life across Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok.

No pressure, no performance — just honest, calm guidance for the hard moments in real homes.

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Let's Talk

Real families. Real results.

One of our kids even asked for “peace in our home” on their Christmas wish list.

"We were pretty desperate when we started to work with BJ. Our home environment was much different than what we had envisioned or wanted. In fact, one of our kids even asked for “peace in our home” on their Christmas wish list. B.J. helped us to create and establish a routine that encourages obedience and heart-regulation for our children, which we continue to implement multiple times a day for all of our kids. Our hearts (as parents) have become more regulated and centered on Christ and as a result, we disciple our children with clear minds. God continues to bless us with peace ... we have less moments of frustration and more moments of peace. Our child is able to verbalize her feelings after going through steps of calming her heart ... Her heart is soft to our discipleship and love as a result from building clear boundaries and maintaining a gentle firmness. All praise to God!!"

Ryan and Val, parents of four

"B.J. understands how real life and real kids operate and helps us practically solve our very daunting parenting problems. He has given us a structure and language to use with our very challenging ADHD son and other neurotypical children that we can really get behind and practice."

Phil and Laura, parents of 10, 8, and 3 year olds

"B.J. is a master teacher who coaches parents how to partner with God in raising their children to be faithful disciples today (and tomorrow) ... Our home has become much more peaceful and loving ... We thought we were signing up for a parent coach, but God gave us a faithful, powerful, and really funny friend!"

John and Becky, parents of 16, 13, and 11 year olds

“What sets B.J. apart isn’t just his knowledge — it’s that he lives what he teaches. I’ve sat under multiple seminars he’s led, and every single time I've walked away encouraged, challenged, and equipped with practical tools I could apply immediately - not just as a parent, but as a person.”

Bobby, father of 18 and 15 year olds

A Good Place to Start

You don’t need to figure everything out today. If your family has been feeling stuck, reactive, or overwhelmed, the Roadmap is a simple place to begin.